Research shows that most of the times we people are busy
finding a nice company…We keep searching
for our Bosom Buddies and Soul Sisters; people to whom we can speak our
heart out, with whom we laugh our lungs out, to whom we can blabber shit and enjoy till our heart drips..
Most of the times we are creepy about the lives of others
(for whatsoever ‘out of the box’ logics we have).These ‘others’ may be your
CRUSH, some friend ,the person you look up to or some Sharmaji-Vermaji kind of
neighbours. We are more interested in knowing what is going on in ‘their’
lives,.. what is ‘their’ RELaTIONShip Status, what car ‘they’ brought or simply
‘their’ flair of interests…
Most of the times we
are busy finding faults in others,pointing out their fallies and proving them
wrong. Afterall we are humans…Transcending others is ‘quite’ a feeling for us.
Most of the times we are busy scrutinizing what others have
and we don’t…we feel his/her life is a complete bliss and mine…A TOTAL MESS!!!!!
So while we spend “MOST ” of our time over such petty
things,lets do something pertinent “for a change”…something that is really
worth our time; that is: FINDING ourself, believing in ourself, being with
ourself….
You might find the best of friends on earth with whom you
might share the deepest of your secrets,,,But believe you me,the best person to
be around ;in this whole universe is YOU…
Feel
the essence in you…feel your fragrance…feel your beauty..Give yourself a
placebo of happiness…
In this fast paced world you undoubtedly “have” to compete
and excel.. but don’t ever allow this competitiveness take over your
life..Emulating YOURSELF would be an excellent idea though…Try being a better
YOU everyday. Remember the Classmate ad: “ Aspire to be the first YOU rather
than being the next somebody”.
I know everybody cannot be a wunderkind but all of us ‘can’
be a Phoenix bird…Learn to rise from your mistakes. Here’s a simple test: If
YOU know your mental , emotional ,scientific ,intellectual (or whatever such
quotient exists)..you are on the right path.Give yourself a ‘High Five’ and
keep marching ahead..But Just in case you don’t…What are you waiting for? Spend
time with YOURSELF..Discover the enigma in YOU…Take YOURSELF on a date, treat
YOURself special and do everything and anything that makes YOU and YOUR soul
happy,without caring about what the world thinks of it…It is YOUR life and you
are not here to give any explainations whatsoever…
And tell all those paranoids,sadists and pessimists out
there that they are not the last ones to be left on earth amidst some wild
beasts…So RELAX..Take a deep breath,Stay CALM and stop being cynical..for God
doesnot attain any pleasure in pinging you…
Your life might not be impeccable..but it is definitely “THE
MOST”amazing and beautiful with all its imperfections…You know why? Because of
the simple fact that it has YOU in it…and YOU are AWESOMEee ..
So Rise up!! Garner yourself..Be audacious!! And Resurge to
conquer this world…
DISCLAIMER: MY NAME IS AISHWARYA AND I AM ‘NOT’ SELF
OBSESSED….
(but definitely
on the way to becoming pragmatically SELF concerned…)
